JanLee,I don't know if you know the song by LeeAnn Womack called "I hope you dance". I'll just let you see a few lines from the lyrics.
"Don't let some hell bent heart leave you bitter,
When you come close to sellin' out reconsider,
Give the heavens above more than just a passing glance,
And when you get the choice to sit it out or dance.
I hope you dance....I hope you dance."
Remember the saying, "what's goes around, comes around"? It really happens no matter how long it takes. All I can tell you is to go on living well and be happy like it didn't happen. Seeing you happy really gets those kinds of people P.O.! Live well and let that person live with him/her self. Good things will come your way JanLee, Believe me! Think about this.."Wise are the ones who make the most of things that come their way, and spend no time weeping for the things that get away."